Oral Cancer Survivor 2020
I was diagnosed in May 2019 with advanced stage 4 SCC in the tongue. I was 39 and had been married for just 4 years. The tumour, that I called Larry, was 5.5cm long and 1.5cm wide. This meant that unfortunately my tongue could not be saved as the width had moved into the right side of my tongue. I was told I would never talk unaided again, I would have a permanent tracheostomy in my neck, and a permanent feeding tube. I was devastated. I was such a foodie after working as a chef and training up as a baker. How was I going to live without a tongue? How would I cope never speaking? What life would I lead? I worked as a recruiter, this would mean that I could never do my job either.
I was really fortunate enough to be invited to join an immunotherapy trial, keynote 689, where I would be given the immunotherapy pre and post-surgery. I also had radiotherapy and chemotherapy. As my cancer was aggressive, I was given a very high dose of radiotherapy. The side effects are not great and I did often wonder whether or not I would get through this.
With the love and support of my friends, my medical team, and support groups, I was not only able to get through the treatments and side effects, but I was able to learn to talk and eat again. I used my cooker knowledge to understand how to adapt recipes so that they would help me learn how my mouth now works. I discovered that I still have some taste-buds as they are not limited to just the tongue.
I have been interviewed by ITV about oral cancer, I have a job back to doing what I love, and I share my experiences with others so that they get the confidence to live again. Life isn’t so bleak. Life is colourful again.
I am looking forward to my role as The Swallows Charity Patron and talking to other patients that might need my help and support.